Ragam pagi ni.

Bismillah.

Adoi lah. Pagi-pagi ni my anak bujang buat ragam tak mahu ke sekolah. Semalam dia mengadu sakit perut. Buang air besar kat sekolah sampai dua kali. Kat rumah 3 kali. OK. I dah confirm sebabnya. Makan lala. Previously dia kena begini juga tapi I tak sure sebab nya sebab sebelum-sebelum ini kalau I masak lala, dia makan dan ok sahaja. Tak pula sakit perut atau ke toilet banyak kali.

So nak jadi kan lah cerita pagi ni....nangis-nangis tak mahu ke sekolah. I tegas harini sebab periksa lagi sebulan. I tak nak dia give up kalau ada sakit sikit-sikit macam ni. Nada suara I macam soprano, and husband I soft ballad gitu! Haha. nasib baik balance, kan? I kata pergi sekolah! Jangan nak ngada-ngada! Anak I kata, sampai hati mummy..sampai hati mummy...I kata,,memang sampai hati pun. Dah cepat!..haha...

Dalam hati kesian u! Tapi kalau I layan, next time dia registered dah cara nak lari dari masalah. Ini tantrum tahap dewasa dah ni. Selalu tantrum happens when your child is two or three years old. Ini dah sepuluh tahun!...Sajaaa je bagi I boil pagi-pagi taww!..

Anyway, dalam kereta tadi mood dia dah ok. Alhamdulillah. May be sebab dari kecil I memang ajar dia, if I can tolerate, yes I can make it happens, but if the matter is cannot be tolerate , you know the answer, which if it is yes, it is yes, and if it is no, sampai sudah it is no.

Masa sampai di sekolah tadi, makan mee goreng, his favourite breakfast. Masa tengah makan, he said, dah tak sakit perut dah mummy, mummy tak payah lah WhatsApp cikgu kelas. And I said, Alhamdulillah. OK, I wont text her. And he smiled and continued eating with bright face.

This one kan, a point lah to u all mothers or fathers out there. We have the instinct sebenarnya, we know whether our children are lying to us or not. All of us are given this parenthood instinct. Allah gives us that. It is not nature ya. All given by him.

So in my case, my child is admitted his wrongdoing by stating : "I am already okay, I don't have any stomach pain". When it's happened, ACKNOWLEDGE it. Do not mengungkit. Do not say the irritating word such as : "Haa...kan dah kata, awak sajaa je buat tu".. No. As the matter of fact, it is a really big NO. Sebabnya, if we do that, our children will learn that bad habit. So bila diorang dah besar, dan bila diorang mula act irritating, kita muhasabah diri kita semula. Sebab children just imitate what they see and learn well from the parents.

Ok. Story I harini. Dan oh ya, malam tadi masa dia mengadu sakit perut, I bagi dia minum air Sole. Dia tak berapa suka rasa nya, sebab payau, but I think this sole drops memang baik untuk perut dia, in fact I yang tengah batuk ni pun berulang-ulang titis dalam mulut and drink the water campur ngan sole drops. Alhamdulillah, kurang lah sikit batuk tu, but still I beli ubat batuk cap kelapa laut afrika sebab I nak jugak benda berangin. Hehe...

Ok dear. I nak buat preparation mengajar petang nanti. Till then..tata semua...

* Dalam gambar--> Inilah SOLE. I recommend u all yang tak mampu nak beli air alkali supaya consume ini. Berbaloi u alls.

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